Sere - 20 - she/her - primary - honestly, it's mostly reblogs here but you're welcome to vibe with me
Sign-Ups are now open!!
So which character are you most excited to see in the big bang?
Spider-Man / Peter Parker
Spider-Man / Miles Morales
Ghost Spider / Gwen Stacy
Spider-Punk / Hobie Brown
Spider-Man 2099 / Miguel O'Hara
Spider-Man: India / Pavitr Prabhakar
Spider-Woman / Jessica Drew
Spider-Man / Peter B Parker
Spider-Byte / Margo Kess
Other
Don’t see your favorite spider? Let us know who you’re excited in the tags and comments!
“only white women are allowed to reclaim masculinity because black women are always seen as masculine!!!” cold ass take. as if the fact that we are always seen as masculine which somehow makes us “less than a woman” which results in black and brown women attempting to be seen as feminine isn’t the most suppressing thing in the world. you’ve never had your mother force you into a dress for the most mundane activities ever (ex. literally just existing in public) because anything else would be seen as “less presentable” and it shows. woc can reclaim masculinity too lol
the fact that we are seen as masculine and less of a woman because of it often results in black and brown women trying to be as feminine as possible in order to not be seen as masculine aka a man. which means that black and brown mothers are often forcing their daughters into femininity against their will which, especially for gnc girls, is traumatizing!!! masculinity can be reclaimed by black and brown girls and can be liberating for us!!!! stop saying it can’t be you racist fuck
i see people rbing this post but can you plsssss rb it with this addition as well. i feel like the first one is kind of messy and i make more sense of it w this rb pls rb this addition!!!!
hey full offense but the ‘use the right pronouns even if the person is horrible!’ statements arent made to coddle horrible ppl, its saying ‘dont view correct pronouns as a fucking privilege that can be taken away once people decide you’ve fucked up enough’, misgendering someone on purpose is transphobic no matter what bc it equates transphobia as a ‘punishment’ for bad people, pronouns are a part of baseline human respect, its that simple
*turns a perfect 180 degrees so that my cutting board-flat ass is facing you* *i walk away with feminine swagger but masculine contempt*
you see. a lot of people on this site have started to use “broke containment” when any post gets popular outside of their circle of friends, but its original use was when it was a vague fandom post (usually supernatural) gets reblogged by people outside the fandom
anway I got whiplash noticing op’s url and realizing this was about gabriel agreste from miraculous ladybug
We take bugs bunny’s “what’s up doc?” for granted by now but walking up behind the guy who’s aiming a gun at your front door and asking “hey what’s going on bro what’s all this” through a mouthful of Cheetos you’re still loudly eating is still a funny as hell concept
I wasn’t actually expecting any answers when I made that post but damn this is really helpful, thank you <3
here’s what i’ve figured out so far:
-gotta have eat first
-gotta sleep enough first
(seriously so many days i’m like “i have all afternoon I’ma Do a Thing” and then i just kinda buzz around and do Nothing and think “WHY” and then i’m like “oh yeah i’m really fuckening tired”)
-gotta be Excited About It (ADHD brain only does things if they’re Literally the Most Interesting Thing Happening Right Now) (so like, hype yourself up to work on a project, or think about how happy you’ll be with a cleaner room/all those chores done)
-gotta have small, doable first step (like, “get cloth from fabric drawer” or “open google docs”
-FUCK distractions (computer is in drawer, phone is Off)
-Engage the Senses (if task needs Brain, play vague background Music, if task needs No Brain, listen to audiobook/podcast)
-maybe set time limit so i don’t get lost??? e.g. i have a little egg timer that i use because the ticking isn’t distracting but is enough to remind me that Time is a Thing that is Passing Right Now
-gotta have Self Awareness and Thinky about the Moment (get into the habit of Consciously Noticing what you’re doing at the moment, so you’re more likely to go “wait, this isn’t what i wanted to be doing” and be able to redirect)
-be willing to redirect and try to do something else if whatever you want to do Just Isn’t Happening
-DON’T beat yourself up for only doing part of something, or failing entirely- all that does is make your brain associate “trying to do stuff” with “well that SUCKED”. Which means you don’t want to try again. Tell urself u did good for trying, and if it didn’t work, try again later, or figure out why it didn’t work and try a different way. Reward yourself for trying
this is what i’ve figured out about cajoling the Thinky No Worky Brain into Doing Stuff. it’s not 100% reliable, especially if I forget to do some of these things (like SLEEP), but it’s what i got, ya know??
I gotta ask, how do people, like, do stuff???
